Patience and Tolerance”* A man must make allowances for women’s 🍃 🍂nature, which is obviously different from that of men;he must also try to look at life from all sides, considering the advantages and disadvantages of his wife, for ✋🏾no one is free from faults. ✌️🏾Both spouses must exercise patience and take into account the positive aspects of each other’s personality, as the Qur’an states,➡️ “ *Do not forget to show kindness to each other* .” (Soorat Al-Baqarah, 2:237) The Prophet ﷺ urges men to treat women with kindness, pointing their attention to the fact that women’s emotional and psychological nature is different from that of men, that such differences between men and women are in actual fact complementary and must in no way give rise to discord and eventual divorce.
5⃣ *Spending the Night with the Wife* The husband is recommended to spend the night with his wife and must do so at least once every four days.
6⃣ *Defending Her, Representing His Honour*When a man marries a woman, she becomes his ‘honour’ which he must stubbornly defend even if he gets killed in the process.
7⃣ *Not Revealing Bedroom Secrets*
The husband must not talk to others about his wife’s particularities and bedroom secrets to other people.
The Prophet ﷺ said, ➡️“ *The worst person in the eyes of Allah on the Day of Judgement is that couple who have an intimate relationship with each other and the man then reveals their bedroom secrets to others.”